Why men get worried when his woman tries to always remain too close, care too much and why a woman gets worries when her man goes even a little away?
Historically men were hunters. They had to go out, hunt and come back. Women had to wait for her man to come back with food for the family.
Hunting would be unpredictable and certainty of man coming back safely with food would always be low. Hence when her man wouldn’t turn up for a few hours or days, women would get doubtful and fearful of the situation.
Man, on the other hand, would know that he had to go out, hunt in unknown and uncertainty, fight for his life and get the food to a woman who is waiting for him.
Our DNA over 3,50,000 years of evolution have got this basic difference encoded as primitive memory. last 3000 years of domesticated civilization is too small in evolutionary terms in the overall context. Therefore when his woman is always around him, he feels suffocated in some ways(as if he is not hunting), searches for space because genetically he is supposed to be away from his awaiting woman so that he can go back and get his love.
On the other hand, when her man doesn’t give his whereabouts for two days, it is a deadly high of negative emotion in her. Enjoy the evolutionary gender inequality. 🙂