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How to become a good listener?

If you wonder why people do not like you as much as you think they should, then you are probably not a good listener. You can use RAANSA model. Receive:– try to repeat the words of the speaker in your mind. Attention:– Pay attention to emotions, voice, posture. Acknowledge:– Nod your head as you listen…
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How to deal with people when they attend calls in the middle of a meeting with you?

If you get irritated the way I do when someone attends a call or start using his/her mobile during the conversation(happens often during interviews), Then do not just sit and wait for the other person’s call to end. Bring out your diary and start writing. If you have nothing to write, just write that “I…
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Opposite to “love” is not “hate”, it is “don’t care”.

There are always “because” associated with hate. but There are no “because” associated with “don’t care”. So if you hate your job, life, partner, environment or anything, it simply means that you care about them but do not like the way they are. The good thing is when you care about something and understand your…
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Practical and Simple Method to Get Rid of Depression Attacks and Negative Emotions.

If you get depression “attacks” and go into an infinite loop where negative emotions keep filling your mind and if you find yourself not in control, helpless to deal with it, then here is a practical simple three-step solution for you that will benefit you and will help you get over it. It happens many…
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Are you a nice person and yet hated?

Do you consider yourself to be a nice person who helps others? But, do you often wonder why people hate you even though your advice benefits people? You may be giving too many free advises to too many people. Never ever advise anyone if they have not exclusively asked for (Even if the person is…
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Bring back discipline in your team, relationships, work, life with Broken Window theory

Problem Are you a creative and super productive person who finds it hard to delegate your work and motivate people to work for you or perhaps get so frustrated by the lack of discipline in your team? Even if all your hires, team mates love and respect you, no one seems to give their 100%…
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Who are snipers? How to disarm them?

Have you ever felt bad or angry when someone takes a potshot at you in disguise of humor? Such people are called snipers. In this post, I will help you with a simple strategy that you can use effectively to deal with the situation and disarm the sniper. Here is how you handle it calmly(do…
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How to answer “what you do?”

You must remember that nobody actually cares to know or talk about you. People only care about themselves. So this question must be interpreted as “do you do anything interesting that can make my life easy?” In 3 seconds you have to draw their interest. Use humor+mystry, add one keyword from your profession to effectively…
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How to prevent people from speaking about others in their absence

Do you get upset when someone tells you “You know what xyz was talking about you?” I promise you that if you use this simple communication strategy you can get peace of mind and relief from balk-talkers. The Pattern: When somebody says you: a) XYZ was telling me that… b) Do you know what XYZ…
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Why do we miss our past love? Why do we miss people who are no more in our life?

Channel Capacity is a term used in Cognitive Psychology to describe the space in our brain for a certain type of information. Consider your brain as a hard disk and this as a sector. When we love someone and spend good time with them, we create memories. These memories are part of both the person…
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